Thinking about remarrying? Consider these reasons why others have chosen not to. One out of two marriages ends in divorce. 60% of second marriages fail. 66% of marriages and living together situations end in break up according to the U.S. Census Bureau. Read more

The EX Factor: Why Men and Women Over 50 Dont Remarry

In focus groups conducted by this author with men and women over 50 and divorced, five major reasons why they dont want to remarry surfaced. Finances are the prevalent concern of both groups.

Financial

Debt responsibility of a new partner
Alimony and child support payments
Family inheritance issues
Financial responsibility for stepchildren
Financial responsibility for elderly parents

Health

Deteriorating health of partner
Caregiver responsibilities
Lack of healthcare coverage
Health issues of the extended family
Differences in beliefs of medical treatment-homeopathic versus prescription medicines

Children

Strained relationships with partners children
Holiday sharing
Gift giving
Wills, trusts, and inheritance
Visitation and caring for children and grandchildren

Independence

Loss of freedom
Set in their ways
Lifestyle changes
Lack of common interests
Co-mingling of household goods and possessions

Social

Family acceptance
Challenges of meeting potential partners
Different religious affiliations
Acceptance of friends
Differences in social etiquette

Currently, R.J. is co-authoring He Feels, She Feels-Dating, Relationships and Remarrying After 50. He invites you to complete their survey on his website, (www.rjlancaster.com) to further their research. As a thank you, R.J. will send you an E-book of your choice as listed on his website. E-mail R.J. with your preference upon completion of the survey.