Use a bit of imagination when planning dates. Every other guy who has hit on her asked her out to dinner or the movies, or both.

Boring. And expensive. And little opportunity to talk.

The first date is about checking each other out - seeing if there is enough there to take things further. If you plan on doing a few of these and you don't have money to burn, do something that gives you maximum interaction time at low cost, like a country walk, a trip to the beach, or just a cup of tea at a cool cafe.

Make sure you get to know your home patch really well. Find a quiet cafe or two to hang out in and get to know the regulars and the owner, so when you take a woman there you have some friendly faces around and people who know your name. She will subconsciously notice that people know and like you. It helps her to feel safe with you.

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